Showing posts with label maternity leave. Show all posts
Showing posts with label maternity leave. Show all posts

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Family Leave


So according to my jobs maternity leave guidelines, you are eligible for 6 weeks paid leave through state disability, after the birth of the baby. Well my 6 weeks was up on Friday. I can not imagine having to leave the baby with her being so little. I'm not even 100% comfortable being a Mom yet. I mean I take care of her, and the fact that she's growing and thriving means I'm doing a good job, but I don't know how to do everything. I have yet to take her to the store with me because I don't know how I'm supposed to get a cart and put her seat in the cart. Because I'm worried that if I get a defective cart, which I know would happen, then I have to switch her carrier from one cart to the other, all while praying she doesn't start crying. I don't know how I'd go to work after a night like last night, when Avery decided she was going to wake up at 2am, 4am, and 6am. I'm so thankful that I am in the position that I'm in, that I am able to take Family Leave. You can put in for up to 12 weeks leave of absence. The down side is that it's all unpaid. I put in for 6 weeks because. I feel so much better knowing that I won't be going back to work till she is almost 3 months. I feel like I'll have things more under control and will know how to venture out with her.
On to other things....
I ordered this super cute Valentines day dress for her, as well as some really cute red sparkly shoes from The Children's Place. With all my nephews it has been one of my favorite places to shop for clothes for them because they have really cute things and for really good prices. I'm just a little annoyed because due to high orders items have been delayed 5-7 days for shipping. I was hoping to get them before Valentines Day because I wanted to go have her pictures taken. I guess if they aren't here I'll just have to buy her something else ;o)





And a cute new picture of the little diva to end my post..


6 weeks 1 day


Monday, December 15, 2008

nesting or just trying to kill time

This past Friday I was super bored at home that it was cranky and grouchy. So I decided to make a list today of things that I needed to do, or wanted to get done. This was my list.

  • Go to Loew's to pick up shelves
  • Go to 5below to look for Christmas presents for the boys
  • Bring the laundry up from downstairs
  • Clean out my car and take it to the car wash
  • Write the kids names in glitter on their Christmas stockings

That was basically the list.

I managed to do all the above.. as well as vaccum out my car. I also used an electric drill and screws to put up a retractable gate in front of my bedroom door to keep the dogs out, and hung a coat rack type thing on the back of my bedroom door.

My hands are swollen, and my back is killing me. But I was not bored at all today :o)

I don't know if this would be considered "nesting" or if I'm just looking for any possible sign of labor, but I do know that tomorrow, I'm not doing diddly squat. Oh yeah, except for going to the drs I'm not getting my hopes up for anything, but I'm hoping that I've progressed further than 1 cm.

Here's hoping.. Fingers crossed!!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Uggg...

So I've been home on Maternity Leave for 2 weeks now, and I'm officially bored!!! I know once the baby is born I won't feel like that...

I'm definitely ready for her to make her big debut. There's a full moon tonight which some say will stir up labor, so I'm kinda hoping that happens.

Is it wrong to just want the baby here so I'm not longer bored ?

Is it wierd that I'd like to be working right now, just so I had something to do ????